Toxic, Toxic, Toxic

Whether it be your best friend, a family member, or your partner, if they don't treat you with up most respect, there may be the need for change. if there is always fight between the both of you and issues are never solved, it is toxic. If the person routinely lies to you, and you have the evidence that he or she is lying, it is toxic. If they continue to talk you down and make negative comments every time you accomplish a task, they're toxic. If they continue to hurt you, thinking that you will forgive them, they are toxic. You need to understand your worth if you don't know it now. If they are meant for your life, God will make a way to place them back in it. If they are worth fighting for, they wouldn't cause you pain on routine. Those meant for your life will always uplift you and tell you the truth when need be said, but they will never put you down for the sake of them feeling better and they will never disregard the special things that you do. A true romantic partner will tell you your beautiful even when your not looking your best because they would be your true love, not just any guy or girl who doesn't know what they want. Toxic family members may be harder to work with if they are toxic, but if you can tolerate their wrong, then so be it, but if they seriously hurt you, make sure to forgive and give them space. Forgiving anyone who maltreats you helps you move on with your life and helps them eventually realize that they hurt you. If you were to stay bitter and feed their negativity, they will use that as an excuse to continue. Forgive, forget, and move on. Don't stay stagnant, leave the guy who hurt you and work on yourself, move away from the friend who tried to ruin your name, and work on yourself. Working on  yourself will attract the people and destiny helpers meant for your life. Pamper yourself, get educated, stay humble, and all the things you want in life will find you. God bless and enter into success ! I know that was corny, but seriously.

Organization

It may take up time, it may cause you pain, but organizing your room, plans, and overall life can help you become the person you need to be. It may seem like a drag, but at the end of the task, I assure you that you'll feel brand new. Buy some cute organization cubes, get a planner, make plans to fit into a schedule, and just get busy. By getting busy, I don't mean that you should do more than what you're able to, but try to work enough to help you reach your goals. The more you do, the better the results of your goals will be. Organization helps a lot when it comes to setting goals because it clears stress and it takes away unnecessary clutter. So get rid of your obstacles and become a success! 

Persistence

I know that I 'm the last person that should talk about this, because my actions show that I lack this attribute, but recently I have discovered its importance. If you are persistent, people will see your dedication and begin to notice your talent. You will also improve faster and you'll analyze yourself more. You will develop better organization skills and give more time to your passion. Whether it be playing an instrument, training for a sport, creating media content, or starting a business, persistence is the greatest key every person needs. This morning, I woke up in a great amount of pain, but I remembered that writing this will benefit me and benefit others, and one day I'll be able to look back at this piece and learn from it again. Do better! Become a success!

Time Management

It's not an easy thing to do, but I had to make it my new routine. Most of my summer consisted of taking summer college classes. The summer program that I entered gave us a strict schedule to go by and our classes placed us in tight situations where we had an essay due one day and another literally due the next. In the beginning, "Ms. Procrastinator" was alive and waited to the time a paper was due, but towards the end I was more focused. There was nowhere to escape, but to accept the fact that we paid money for the program and we had to abide by the rules and do our very best. So that was my mindset, I paid for it, so I have no choice but to do great. I took that attitude and applied it to life because someone paid for my life, whether it be my guardians or my God. The mere fact that someone invested time in us, whether it's a big or small amount, should prompt us to do our very best. On that note, understand that making sure that your on top of your assignments only benefits you and no one else. So switch that attitude and become a success!

Are You Done Being MIA ?

I know I've been gone for a while, especially after I said some months ago that I would be back. but guess what? I'm back for good now! I will be uploading content at least twice a week because this upcoming school year has a lot to offer. Now that I will be attending college in about 3 and half weeks, I'm going to use this time to reflect and improve on myself. There will be so many stories, advice, and creative ideas. Anyone willing to join me should make sure to come back every Monday and Thursday. Enjoy!